Ashleigh Farrell, BellaB Maternity, Baby Holden's Arrival!

They don't call it labor for nothing!

We headed into the hospital at 7:00 pm to start the induction. First we were
settled into our room which I must say was like a luxury hotel suite, it was
HUGE! Talk about plush, there was a pull out sofa for dad to sleep on, zero
gravity recliners for other visitors, a flat screen tv with games,
educational videos and movies on demand, the free room service menu
including things like jumbo sea scallops, lamb top sirloin, and pork
medallions, I mean even the bathroom was plush complete with hair dryer, and
decorative curtain valance for the tub! After taking pictures of all of the
"amenities" we got ready for a night of interventions. I was checked and the
games began with me at a fingertip dilated and 60% effaced. I was given
Prostin, similar to Cervidil, every 4 hours to help ripen the cervix and
then we waited until the morning to see what the game plan would be.

My body actually started laboring on it's own after 2 doses of the Prostin
but we went ahead with another dose because it would just further things
along. Once the doctor came in the following morning we started the Pitocin.
I was now at 1 cm and 75% effaced and the plan was to break my water at
noon. In the meantime, the contractions started coming full force and
getting pretty painful. Everything that people said about Pit was true, at
least I think so since I've never done this before! It became painful
quickly that's all I know. At this point, I didn't want to get the epidural
yet because I didn't want it to slow things down and I didn't want to be
tied to my bed that early. I held out for a couple more hours and then asked
for some IV pain meds to tide me over. I was given Stadol which worked great
to knock out the pain but the OB came in 30 minutes later to break my water
and she decided to crank the Pitocin at the same time so it was a double
whammy. And ladies and gentlemen buckle your seatbelts! The contractions
immediately became completely out of control every 2 minutes at most, I was
soon shaking from the pain and I was begging for the epidural. The nurse
told me that they'd rather I wait it out a little bit longer until there was
some progress with my cervix, because I was still at 1-2 cm and 75% effaced,
so I attempted to hold out for longer. I made it one hour until I was
absolutely spent and told the nurse that I didn't care anymore I needed meds
and I needed them NOW!

About 30 minutes later they came in to do the epidural which was a piece of
cake. After dealing with those contractions a little needle stick was
nothing to fear! It felt similar to getting a tattoo for just a few seconds
and the needle was in and out. I was doing my best to keep it together
because I was still getting contractions every 2 minutes and shaking
uncontrollably through them. At last the catheter was placed and I was
anxious for the relief. Unfortunately, I ended up being one of the lucky
people whose epi doesn't work like planned. It only took on one half of my
body. GREAT! They tried tipping me over to one side and ultimately replaced
the catheter to attempt to get it positioned correctly but it never worked.
The only solution was to crank the meds up to where it relieved pain on the
side it wasn't working fully but this made the other side 100% numb to where
I couldn't even lift my leg. The pain was manageable at this point, I could
deal with only feeling the pain on one side and I was more comfortable for
about another hour or two. Once the epidural was placed Shaun ended up going
to run some errands since it looked like I was going to be here for quite
some time, afterall I had only dilated 1 full cm since we came into the
hospital! But it seemed that as soon as he left the pain returned on that
one side with avengence! I started shaking again and called for the nurse to
bring the anesthesiologist back in to do something. But the nurse sent her
to the wrong room so it took an HOUR for her to come in and fix me. In this
hour I was dying! I was sooo nauseous they ended up giving me Zofran to keep
me from puking and finally the lady came in to fix the meds. She cranked up
the epidural, gave me another bolus, and a shot of Fentanyl which took the
edge off one more time. The nurse checked me after this and all of a sudden
I was 6-7 cm! I scrambled to get a hold of Shaun and tell him to get back to
the hospital quickly! The shaking continued and the nurses said I was
transitioning and started preparing the baby bassinette area. Shortly after
Shaun showed up I was checked again, now at 8-9 cm 100 % effaced and baby
was "right there". The doctor went to get changed and it was time to push
once she returned. Holy cow that was fast!

Pushing was overall very painful because the meds and epi started to wear
off once again, so I pretty much felt everything on my left side. We ran
into some issues with the baby's heart rate during the contractions which
apparently happens more frequently in babies that are small. His heart rate
would drop to the 50's (normal is 140 bpm) during contractions and the
doctor told us after about 3 pushes that we may need to use a vacuum to get
him out because it wasn't safe to have his heart rate continue dropping this
way for a long time. So this was my motivation to push like a maniac. I was
told that I pushed amazing for a first timer but honestly I didn't feel like
I was accomplishing anything. I kept thinking if I'm pushing so great then
why isn't he out! But I kept on going. it seemed like I was there for 7
hours just pushing. I was getting exhausted and I was still shaking
uncontrollably from the pain. I was on the oxygen mask and it all just
became very overwhelming. I just couldn't seem to get him under my pelvic
bone so he would come out and then slide back and come out and slide back no
matter what I did. We then started pushing 4 times per contraction instead
of 3 and I just didn't have anything left. I told her I had one more good
set of pushes in me so she got the vacuum ready just to help him under the
pelvic bone and I gave it my all. 4 pushes later he was out thank GOD!! As
soon as he was out I felt a burning sensation and asked frantically if I had
torn, Shaun looked at me and said "babe she had to cut you". I guess the
vacuum popped off of his head as he was almost out and he started sliding
back in and she grabbed the scissors, cut me, and grabbed his head. I got a
last minute/emergency episiotomy to top it all off!!

Holden Liam Farrell was born at 8:32 pm November 5th after just less than an
hour of pushing. Our little guy weighed in at 5 lbs 3 oz and 18 3/4 inches
long. He was staring all around the room from the moment he came out of the
womb, eyes wide open, very alert. He was taken to the nursery to be
suctioned soon after because he had some fluid in his lungs, but he was back
in the room with us about an hour later and has been doing fantastic ever
since! He is absolutely precious and already looks like a little man, not
your typical newborn. It is truly amazing that he came out of me, I just
can't wrap my head around it.. Our beautiful baby boy is finally here and he
was worth every second of discomfort these past 9 months and every minute of
my crazy labor! I am amazed at myself for doing it, I actually did this. he
is here. I just can't believe it, he is here at last!!